Respect For The Commitment

Halo to all.

I just had a good, and meaningful casual talk with my mother (Thank you mom! :D). If you all wanna know, it's about marriage. I know you people think it's too early for me to pop this stuff out, but I just wanna understand what I needed to do in order to uphold it forever. :) Though, I disagree on the my mom's ideal age to tie the knot; She told me that I should be around 30 Years Old to get married. :O That's way 'over the limit' for me. To be honest, I'd say that it is best to make that happen when you are around 25 Years Old. I have a couple of reasons for that:
1) My generation is different from my parents' generation. This means that our perspectives of life is different from theirs. Compared to before, people nowadays started seriously dating early, because they understand love is the most important thing to keep living a good life (Even various Video Games do that :D), and it'd be a waste if you start it's journey later.
2) Accessibility to jobs are way easier nowadays. That is why you see many young people have stable jobs, which helps to aid them and their spouse financially.
3) The fact that we have Internet today, people could just look for any tips and advice to uphold a successful marriages online, whether though search engines, social network sites, or even media. My generation sure does learn as fast as a sky rocket. (Innuendos again Paolo. Damn... I must make more of these. XD)
4) This reason is for those who want to make a baby via making love to each other without contraceptives, obviously. :) Giving birth around that age is safer, as the risk of your baby to be diagnosed with diseases associated to abnormal characteristics & personalities (E.g. Down's Syndrome) will be lesser than those who are 30 Years Old or above.

With that being said, I promised myself to create a blog on talking more about romance, and here you have it. It's going to be related to this phrase: "Love has no boundaries."

I have seen many couples within my 25 metre radius (A Halo reference about the Motion Sensor detection distance) come and go. However, the ones I noticed more into particular are those multiracial couples (E.g. A Chinese and a Malay holding hands.).

The reason why I really respect this type of couples is because they actually proven to the world that race and religion does not matter when it comes to love. They are simply showing just 2 humans who are basically in love with each other. <3

In parallel to this, even many of my relatives coupled with someone outside Filipino blood since a long way back. One of my father's cousins married a Canadian, and they are currently living in Canada with their 2 Half-Canadian Half-Filipino kids, and one of my mother's cousins married a Vietnamese. Just to let you know, I am mostly of Filipino blood, with some Spanish and a little African-American within. Man, I feel unique! :D

Because of this, I believed in what the phrase said. The fact that nationalities don't matter, but appearances & personalities do. This was what made me chase after someone outside Filipino blood. :3

Whatever those multiracial couples are showing, they are damn well eradicating 'Racist' off the dictionary. ;) Gotta give my warm thanks to my mom for that mother-to-son casual talk a while ago. I'm lucky to have a mother who cares for me as much as I care for her. :D Exam is in 9 days, and I'm on to mindmapping what I had learnt in my Polytechnic for the past 17 weeks, now that the arrangement of my notes are finally organized. Till then, see you starside.

"Your marriage will last if you consistently sustain these 3 things: Financially (Money ensures survival, and that is buying a house, and paying it's bills.), Mentally (Be understanding to each other, and compromise if there is any problem to be resolved.), and Emotionally (When she is sad, you hold, and tell her that you are still there for her, no matter what.)."